By

Matilda Godson

A lot of ladies can testify greatly when it comes to the many men in their lives and their attention(s). Some get frustrated, some are overwhelmed and others are just receptive (even wanting more). 

 Being the kind of species that he is, a man will never hesitate to go for a lady (most especially when she has a brain, a fantastic body and a beautiful heart. As a lady, you should know and understand why these men keep coming and you should also be smart enough so you’re not carried away. For how can bees not come after honey?

I always say to beautiful young girls that it’s normal for a man to say that he likes you even though you think you are the most repulsive, repugnant or poorest babe out there. No matter how low your self-esteem is, you’ll still find a man that will go for your type and will be on your case. 

Some of these men might come with good intensions, some might try to change you to suit their ‘taste’ which might appear positive or negative to you while some might come only to be snatched away by that betraying friend of yours. Some men will come and even scare you with their kind of love.

Now, l have heard cases of where a man did everything earthly possible to win a girls heart without giving the girl a clue that he was only looking to add her to the number of ‘books on his shelf’. There are many stories about relationships and SUPPOSED relationships that start out great and later end up bad but the question is, why would you want to lose your sweetness because of one or two bad experiences that you had while dating?

Dearest, for how long do you intend to be in that corner regretting all that you did in the relationship that flopped. You should understand that these men are gone and you should also understand that they left because they could not handle the greatness in you; the insecurity was affecting them, trust was such a big issue for them. For him, you were probably too good to be true.

I find really funny when I hear the phrase ‘good girl gone bad’. Is it really a true one? Maybe the girl wasn’t really a good; maybe all this while, she had tendencies of becoming bad. Never believe that ‘all men are the same’. That is not a true statement. If all the men that you dated treated you badly, then you need to do a proper check on yourself.