It’s been a while since that awkward moment in health class when
you learned how to put a condom on a banana. Whether you were actually
paying attention or too preoccupied chatting with your friends (and
avoiding saying the word “penis” at all costs), it’s possible you may
have missed a thing or two about the proper way to wrap it up.
Now that you’re an adult, you may think you’ve mastered these simple sheaths. But believe it or not, the CDC estimates
there’s a typical use failure rate of 18%. The takeaway: even as an
adult, you’re not immune to teenage-status condom errors. However, when
used correctly, condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy, and
they’re your best line of defense against STDs. To help you avoid
joining that 18%, stop making these common mistakes.
Waiting too long
Your health teacher wasn’t lying to you, “There’s plenty of sperm in
pre-ejaculation,” says Lauren Streicher, MD, Associate Clinical
Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Northwestern University, and
author of Sex Rx: Hormones, Health and Your Best Sex Ever ($14; amazon.com).
“So even if he doesn’t ejaculate, you’re still at risk of both
pregnancy and a sexually transmitted infection.” In other words: quit
procrastinating. As soon as you’re ready to get going, grab a condom.
Forgetting to check for damages
About 83% of women and 75% of men failed to check condoms before
use in an Indiana University review of studies. We get it—in the heat
of the moment, you aren’t thinking about much more than getting that
condom on as quickly as possible. But before you assume that rubber is
ready for action, take a beat to make sure the wrapper doesn’t look worn
out and the condom isn’t sticky, brittle, discolored, or damaged. Also,
if it expired back your college days, it’s time to trade up to a fresh
box.
Faulty application
While it may seem pretty self-explanatory, there are plenty of ways
to mess up the simple act of putting on a condom. So here’s a quick
throwback to the banana lesson: After unwrapping the condom and checking
that it’s not inside out, place the rolled tip on top of the penis.
Then unroll it to completely cover the shaft. If you only bother going halfway down, you’ll be exposed to way
more skin, putting you at risk of contracting (or transmitting) an STD.
Also, while putting it on, pinch out excess air inside the condom and
make sure you leave half an inch of space at the tip where semen can
collect, reminds Dr. Streicher.
Doubling up
If one condom is great at preventing pregnancy and STDs, then two condoms should be even better, right? Definitely not. More is not
merrier in this case. Layering two condoms can dramatically increase
the chance of slipping off, especially if you’re using a lubricated
type, explains Dr. Streicher. “If the first condom rolls off, then it
usually takes the second one with it.”
Taking it off too soon
Just like waiting too long to put the condom on is problematic, so is
taking it off too early. Yet, researchers from Indiana University found
between 13.6% and 44.7% of individuals removed the condom
before intercourse was over. Of course, pulling off protection puts you
at risk of both STDs and pregnancy. So instead of giving up on a condom
before you’ve reached the final act, consider trying out different kinds to figure out which one works best for you and your partner.
Buying the wrong size
Condoms aren’t a one-size-fits-all deal, and let’s face it, not every
man is an XL (sorry, fellas). “There’s always that guy who buys the
extra-gigantic condom, when he’s not,” says Dr. Streicher. When it comes
to staying safe, it’s important to be realistic about size. If the
condom is too small, it could break. If it’s too large, it could slip
off during sex. The most important thing is not to focus on stroking
your guy’s ego, but rather finding a condom that actually fits properly.
Forgetting about oral
You can’t get pregnant from oral sex, but you can still get an STD,
says Dr. Streicher, which means you’ve still got to wrap it up. And
here’s a trick they probably didn’t teach you in health class: women can
use condoms when receiving oral as well. “Since no one ever uses dental
dams, instead, take a condom and cut the tip off,” instructs Dr.
Streicher. “This will give you a square to put over your vulva for
protection.” If you decide to try out this tip (no pun intended), make
sure you use an un-lubricated condom; otherwise the barrier will fly
right off.
Using the wrong lube
Speaking of which, lube can be a great addition to your condom
experience. Not only can it make sex more enjoyable, but it also helps
prevent the latex from tearing or ripping. However, if you choose the
wrong lubricant, it could spell disaster. “Not all lubricants are
condom-compatible,” says Dr. Streicher. “Any oil-based product can cause
break-down of condoms. You always want to stick with water-based or
silicone-based, or a mixture of both.”
Storing them improperly
You were told in high school health class not to store condoms in
your wallet. Well, that wasn’t just a myth to scare you into
celibacy. All the bending and friction can cause tiny holes, rendering
the rubber totally useless, and if you keep your wallet in your pocket,
your body heat can also degrade the sheath. Instead, make sure you keep
condoms in a cool, dry place away from sunlight or heat.
Not using one at all
You already know you need to be using condoms, but the advice is
worth repeating: “Any time there’s skin-to-skin contact, you should
really use a condom,” says Dr. Streicher. Educate yourself on the nine types of condoms, and stock up.
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